| skyholder on Dec 30, 2005 at 10:19:39 AM (# 9) Its BECAUSE I've looked at the history file, that I felt the need to block sites.
And we have talked about it.
Will it be "forbidden" fruit that he searches for? Maybe.
We'll see. But for now, the second browser is working.
Thanks,
Skyholder
skyholder on Dec 30, 2005 at 10:21:26 AM (# 10)Oh, and as to what I, as a 45 year old would be looking at, that I don't want my 13 year old son to be looking at?
Does that really ned and answer?
Skyholder
ctcrmcou on Dec 30, 2005 at 10:28:57 AM (# 11)Well really how is it any different than a bunch of school buddies with a playboy behind the school yard. This is just a different medium. And there is always the library with the liberalistic access to anything on their computers.
So if you really want to protect your children, either move to a deserted island, or take away the computer. You have to make choices for him and be willing to make your own sacrifices as well. (Such as buying encyclopedias, going to the library with him, supervising his computer access, etc.) An involved parent is a good parent.
skyholder on Dec 30, 2005 at 10:47:50 AM (# 12)Ya know, I have considered the "Playboy" rationale. But MANNNNN, what's available on line, far exceeds anything I EVER saw from the bunnies. Can't I shelter him for a few more years????
*Smile*
Skyholder
Holophrastic on Dec 30, 2005 at 12:11:37 PM (# 13)You can, by sitting next to him. Not only to force him to not click that link, but also to be there when he does. That perhaps is even more important.
I look at it this way: when a 6 year old hits adult content, it's of little concern. When a 26 year-old hits adult content, it's of no concern. So if we're talking about the 12 year-old, then that's the point where you wantto be there to ensure that forbidden-fruit isn't the case, that questions get answered, and that you are not avoided when real situations arise.
Not to mention, as an adult, it is often difficult to avoid adult content everywhere. That alone is a skill that needs to be taught.
BachusII on Dec 30, 2005 at 1:11:30 PM (# 14)First step, place 'the young ones' pc in the living room/kitchen area. High traffic, little privacy equals less oppurtunity for naughtiness.
skyholder on Dec 30, 2005 at 6:25:01 PM (# 15)Thanks to all who took the time to offer a suggestion.
That IS why I came here.
Thanks again, and Happy New Year to all,
Skyholder
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